"How do I appear confident?"
Self-confidence is not given to everyone and shy people often seem less self-confident - which, however, can be a fallacy. Few of body language cues can often help you appear more confident.
If you sneak around with your shoulders slumped and your eyes lowered and you tend to flinch, if someone greets you instead of facing them with an upright look, you become less self-confident works. The right effect will come from "within", the external signs from self-consciousness however, you can also train beforehand.
Appear and appear self-confident
- You look particularly confident when you walk upright instead of hanging your shoulders.
- Do not look down at every meeting, for example in the office corridor, when the greeting is over. It is better if you keep eye contact for another moment.
- Anyone who talks a lot in a discussion group and often speaks out often appears more self-confident than someone who just sits quietly - however this impression can be deceptive, because people who make a lot of talk often do so precisely to make up for their lack of self-confidence camouflage.
- So if you're more of an introvert, you don't have to be a frequent speaker. Rather, try to put one or the other concise accent in a discussion.
Whether among colleagues, within a partnership or among friends - maybe you have ...
Achieve impact by asking questions
- You can do this, for example, by asking a question that hovers in space, but which nobody seems to dare to ask.
- For example, if you are in a seminar group that is supposed to work on a certain task that is not yet completely clear, it can seem very self-confident to demand the necessary clarity.
- Often no one dares to ask questions because the fact that they have not understood something could look like stupidity - but at most those who don't ask are stupid.
- Even if you follow a discussion attentively instead of burying your head in documents, you appear more confident.
Appearing self-confidence to other people can make life easier in some situations. However, you shouldn't overshoot the mark either, otherwise you can easily come across as arrogant.
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