"How can I write to him?"

What you need:

• address
• possibly. paper
• possibly. a greeting card

Write to your crush - this will give you the address

• If you want to write to your crush, the first thing that is important is that you have an address to send the letter to. For a letter, try to find out the name and address.
• If you would like to write an e-mail, try to find out the e-mail address. For example, if you are in a class with your crush, you could have a list passed around and everyone put their email address on it. So you don't notice that you just want to get to the address of your crush.
• Facebook is also a great way to message your crush. Find him out and get him a nice message.
• If you only have the name of your loved one, look for them on the internet using a search engine. Maybe you're lucky and he is logged into a forum or has a website where you can then find contact details.

Find the right words for him

Now is the time to get a message across to your crush. Read here how you can best write to him:

• If you are shy and are looking for a no-obligation contact with your crush, then the best thing to do is to write to them using an excuse. Ask him about his homework or invite him to a group meeting.
• If you want to confess feelings to your crush and cannot put the right words on (digital) paper yourself, then look for a greeting card that expresses your feelings. It's personal, but less direct than when you have to find the right words yourself.
• If you take the courage and your crush is yours love If you want to confess, then you should be honest, but not too exuberant - otherwise your loved one may feel cornered. Do not give him an ultimatum or press him to answer.