"Divorce in the first year of marriage?"
"Freed quickly, repented early" - what the vernacular says does not have to be true in every case, of course. But if you bonded with your partner too early, you may experience your first crisis in the first year of marriage. But then you don't have to think about a divorce right away.
Anyone who already has a divorce thinks, maybe he'll ask himself why he got married. For a harmonious relationship It is also not crucial that it runs completely without a crisis, but rather how well you can master crises together.
Crises in the first year of marriage
- Especially if you got married and moved in together very quickly after meeting you, you will Perhaps in the first year of marriage you will discover aspects of your partner that you find difficult with get by.
- If you have not tried living together before, it may also arise Conflicts in everyday life. Then don't immediately become convinced that there is no way you can live your life together.
- It is better to first try to solve the first crisis or the first conflicts together. Then the crisis can turn into a great opportunity that will bring you closer together.
- You may experience a major crisis in the first year of marriage as something threatening. the wedding party It wasn't long ago and a gap seems to be opening between you and your partner. Then remember that hardly any partnership is completely free of conflict. Rather, the decisive factor is the willingness to resolve conflicts and to compromise.
If you are seeking a divorce from your spouse, you should ...
Avoid divorce
- A divorce or separation you can only avoid it if you actively deal with the conflict and do not hide behind your supposedly better arguments like in a trench.
- If you cannot find an escalation-free communication yourself, it can be helpful to have the discussions moderated by a neutral third party. to seek help from a couples and family counseling center.
- A brief separation, during which you and your partner can gain some distance from the conflict, can also be helpful.
- In addition, you should not overestimate a first crisis and not turn a mosquito into an elephant.
A major crisis in the first year of marriage can be a test for the partnership. However, you should not think about a divorce until you have exhausted all options and resources to cope with the crisis.
