"I don't know if I want him"

When you don't know whether the new one will fit

Sometimes you don't really know whether you want your new friend or not. A few considerations can help you make a decision.

• What about your and his interests? If you have a good mix of hobbies, but can also do some things without for yourself or with friends, that's a good prerequisite. If you don't have any common interests at all, this could lead to relationship problems in the long run.
• How does your new friend treat you? If he is courteous and attentive, that is a good sign, but wait and see if this continues or if it only happens because you are initially in love.
• The most important thing, however, is your gut instinct: are you in love or do you even already love him? If so, the step is to become one relationship just a little more.
• Sometimes it does love but also blind. If you don't know whether you want him or not, talk to your best friend and ask what she thinks of him. This may help you spot problems that you haven't seen before.
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Should i get married? - Decision support

Should you marry or shouldn't you? Not only men get faced with this ...

Decide whether to marry him

Sometimes you've been in a relationship for years, but you still don't know whether you want to marry him.

• Can you imagine spending the rest of your life with this man? It doesn't mean that it has to happen, but if you already have that wedding knowing that this was not your last partner should you not marry him.
• Can you imagine raising a family with him if you want to have children yourself? If you love him but for some reason don't want children with him, then this step should be considered carefully.
• If you don't know whether you want to marry the father, it is also helpful to look back at the past one To look at relationship, to look at the ups and downs and to see this picture in the future project. If you feel good about it, it is an indication that you want to marry him.