The beloved does not always lose
An old saying goes that the beloved always loses. It refers not only to women who have a lover in addition to their committed relationship, but also to men who secretly meet with their territories. However, the adage is less and less true, because many couples who are in a relationship decide to break up and to live with the new partner. But how do you know that your partner is serious about you? Here you will find some pointers that speak for or against.
It can happen every day: You run into an interesting woman, whether at work, playing sports or on public transport. Sometimes you get to know a woman on the Internet who you quickly notice that you are not indifferent to her. If the feelings are reciprocated on the part of the woman, an affair sometimes occurs even though the woman is married or in a steady relationship. If you can't get away from each other, sometimes you wonder whether you will remain the lover or whether the woman will break up with her partner for you. Here you will find hints that speak for it - or not.
To remain the beloved forever - or is it serious?
- Any woman who falls in love again will not immediately part with her husband or life partner unless she lives in an unhappy one relationship and is happy to be able to finish it without having to be alone afterwards.
- The first thing you should do when you meet a woman who is in a relationship or who is married is to give her time to sort out her feelings. If it comes as a surprise to her that she has fallen in love again, it would be unfair of you to put pressure on her after a short period of time.
- If your relationship with the woman lasts longer and becomes unsatisfactory for you when you are only the beloved, you should seek the conversation. Reveal your feelings and openly express your desire for a life together.
Go from lover to partner
- You can tell from your friend's reaction whether she shares this wish with you. If she talks about waiting for the children to grow up or about her partner's illness, you should be vigilant. Compassion for your partner is also a common excuse.
- If your friend no longer wants you to be just the beloved in her life either, she will make concrete plans for the future with you. The separation plans from her partner will be concrete, she would like to move into an apartment or a house with you and there are plans for the children, if she has any. In this case, you can hope that soon you will no longer be the beloved, but the partner by her side.
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