What do guys want to hear?

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Sometimes you want to be able to read minds to know what guys actually want to hear. But it's actually very simple: there are some things that flatter every boy.

Ingratiate yourself - more difficult than expected

Many women and girls are single - but many without wanting to be. Some people just find it difficult to get on with guys properly and they keep asking themselves what they actually want to hear. When trying to do justice to the boy, many girls pretend and stutter. There are some things that every male likes to hear - but also some things that nobody wants to be confronted with.

Almost all guys want to hear the same thing

If you are wondering what guys actually want to hear and how you can really ingratiate yourself, then first think about what you would like to hear yourself. Usually the answer is simple: the truth. When talking to the opposite sex, it is important to be open and honest. Because the interlocutor usually notices when you are lying. And lying compliments are not half as nice as honest ones.

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Of course, guys also like compliments and feel flattered by them. However, it is important that the compliments are meant seriously and that they really relate to your counterpart. Phrases like "you have beautiful eyes" seem uncreative and boring. Pick something that you really like about the person you are talking to - the more extraordinary, the better.
Also, guys don't want to know everything about a girl right away. It is better to make yourself aware of something and keep a few secrets than to directly reveal your entire life with all its problems. In this way you appear mysterious, you don't have to reveal your entire life immediately and keep something to talk about later.
Of course, boys also want people to be interested in them. So you don't just want to hear stories, you also want to tell about yourself. This is the only way to get a real conversation going. So if you want to ingratiate yourself, then you are interested in the person you are talking to and feel free to ask something about a topic that you actually do not find particularly exciting.