Getting recognition as a person

This is how you get recognition as a person

• Everyone needs recognition. That is a perfectly normal need.
• Parents should be proud of you, friends should appreciate you and you want to be taken seriously.
• This includes, for example, compliments and now and then a pat on the back from the boss.
• But that only works if you have enough self-respect and can respect yourself. If you don't have enough self-respect, recognition won't work either.
• It is also important that people learn to be worth something even without recognition. Don't make yourself dependent on other people. It is quite normal to encounter rejection at one point or another.


Combating self-doubt - this is how you will gain more self-confidence

With self-doubt through life? You surely don't want that. Self-doubts are ...

• Check your self-esteem. Do you like yourself? Do you respect and love yourself? Do you make your life dependent on others?
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• Sometimes it is good to seek psychological support. You don't have to do everything alone.
• If you want to do it on your own, you should think about which people you may be dependent on. Write down people and also write down everything you want to achieve in your life and why you care about the recognition of others.
• Don't criticize yourself all the time. When you badmouth yourself, you project that onto other people as well. Even though you have no way of knowing what other people will think of you.
• Don't frantically seek approval. Be authentic. As you are, you are correct. So change your thoughts and pat yourself on the shoulder every now and then.
• You have nothing to lose and nothing can happen to you. There is hardly a person who does not quarrel with himself now and then. This is completely normal. Don't take yourself too seriously and get out of your shell.
• It is only when you accept yourself for who you are that you will not care what other people think of you.