In love with someone who has a boyfriend
It's a nice feeling to fall in love. However, if you have fallen in love with a woman who already has a boyfriend, that makes things a lot more difficult. Do you choose fight or flight and which of them is the right decision? Much depends on how deep your feelings really are. It is therefore important to start at this point.
How in love are you
Before you do all you can, you should first be clear about the dimensions of your feelings for this one woman.
- It makes a difference whether you have a crush or a love. Think beforehand what you would be ready for this love to risk. What would you give up and what value would a relationship with her have for you? Answer these questions honestly to yourself to see if it's worth fighting, as the situation could get tricky.
- Even if after your "love check" it is clear that you want to win over this one woman who already has a boyfriend, do not act in a rush. It is now important to know if your feelings are being reciprocated. So pay close attention to the woman's body language. How does she behave next to her boyfriend? How much closeness is there between the two of them? Are there loving touches?
- If you have the feeling that this is not great love between the two, then you should cleverly bring yourself into play. Make eye contact more often and be sensitive to the girl's reactions.
- Does she blush or smile? Are there sparks between them? Then stay tuned. Talk to her and seek her unobtrusively close. How does she behave when you stand next to her? Be discreet and not too intrusive in all of these actions.
You are in a relationship and have fallen in love with another woman. So …
How can you win against your boyfriend?
- Even if you hate to hear it because you are very much in love, but now keep calm and be patient. You have laid the foundation, wait and see what happens. Keep making eye contact and hope that you will be interesting to them first. If the girl becomes more interested in you, then the first doubts about her current relationship will arise.
- Make it your goal to win over the woman rather than have the boyfriend as the enemy. Your focus should always be on her. Ultimately, she also has to make the decision to split up. That something has already developed between the two of you will have escaped your friend if you were skillful. After a separation Your chance comes and if everything goes according to plan, your girl is already waiting for you.
- If the situation does not clear up for a long time or if it becomes an up and down, then you become more direct and confront them with the question of whether there is hope, or write your one Letter. In doing so, you are asking your loved one to take a clear stand. When in doubt, this is always the better solution. If you split up, no one should know that you were the cause. Because then everyone can save face.
So don't get in touch with her straight away, stick with it and enjoy the development of both of you relationship. However, if she shows no interest in you, you should respect that and your current relationship and keep your distance.
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